trouble with school, sports,and relationships: at home: just lounging around on the computer whil...

trouble with school, sports,and relationships: at home: just lounging around on the computer whil...: "at home: just lounging around on the computer while my parents and extended family plan our family trip to europe! can't wait to go! i know ..."

at home: just lounging around on the computer while my parents and extended family plan our family trip to europe! can't wait to go! i know this has nothing to do with the subject of my blog i just didnt have anything to write and i havent written anything for 2 days so ya this is just what i am putting today because i am trying to put at least one post up a day.

another problem!

-i like my boyfriend. a lot.
-but everytime i see a cute guy walk by or i talk to a cute guy i wish i could flirt with him and make him like me.
-but no i can't because i have a boyfriend and i would feel bad if i did.
-does this mean i want to be single?
-does this mean i am trying to set my standards higher?
-should i break up with my boyfriend and stay single so that i am open to new opportunities?
-when i meet a new guy should i not lead him on to the fact that i have a boyfriend and see how it goes and then if i like this new guy better i break up with my boyfriend and say that i still want to be friends with him and keep him close?
-WHAT DO I DO!?!?

Grrr!

is anyone else is this position right now?
-i really like my boyfriend
-but he is kinda being a jerk and acting like he only cares about himself
-i told him that he was and he said he will "try to change it" but i'm not sure that he will
-don't want to break up with him but he is really getting on my nerves
-do i ask him to give me some space to see if he will change?
-anyone have any advice?
-i don't know what to do!

No one wants to be around this type of person:

no one wants to be around someone that:
-blames everything on other people and doesn't take responsibility for their actions.
-someone that ALWAYS lives in the moment and never thinks about consiquences(hanging out with those type of people could get you in trouble)
-someone that doesn't take control of their life(someone that never does homework and is always just lounging around and not having their priorities straight)(oh ya and it doesn't make you cool if you don't do your homework, it just makes you look lazy)
-someone that competes over everything
-talks all the time and never really listens to what anyone else is saying because they don't really care(you lose friends that way)
-they don't cooperate(this could get you in trouble later on in life)
-someone that is constantly "tired" and they don't have the energy to hang out(another way to lose friends)

7 steps to help your school, sports, and social life become better!

1. Be Proactive
   Take responsibility for your life
2. Begin with the End in Mind
   Define you missions and goals in life
3. Put First Things First
   Prioritize, and do the most important things first
4. Think Win-Win
   Have an everyone-can-win attitude
5. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
        Listen to people sincerely
6. Synergize
   Work together to achieve more
7. Sharpen the Saw
   Renew yourself regularly

                   As Quoted from the book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
                                              Written by: Sean Covey

Trouble With School

There are always going to be times when you really don't want to go to school because you just either have a big test that day that you didnt study fot or that there is a girl or boy at your school that is bugging you and causing you trouble. I've had that feeling a million times but trust me you should go anyways and if you fail the test you accept the conciquences and learn the lesson the hard way. Or maybe you could stand up to that person that is giving you a problem and then they wouldn't bug you anymore. Well if you don't have the confidence to do that(I know I don't) just try to ignore, it will make your life so much easier. Or if you don't have many friends if any friends at all so you just regret going to school everyday because you know that your not going to have anyone to hang out with at lunch. Well I have gone through a point in my life where I had to deal with that for about 2 weeks. For the people that have a hard time making friends because they are misunderstood, try finding people that act the same way you do and i'm sure that school will be a lot more fun after doing that. It might take a while to find them, but i'm sure with time that you will.